Best Marriage Advice for Newlyweds

Marriage is not easy. It takes work to keep it alive and healthy. The best way to get the most out of your marriage is by communicating openly with each other, being affectionate, having fun together, and learning about each other's needs. This article will outline some of the best advice for newlyweds from experts on how to make your marriage thrive.

Make time for each other. Married people fall into a routine where all of the responsibility falls on one person's shoulders, whereas in dating you have to make an effort if you want to see this person. Don't let your marriage become stale by not making time for each other. Keep communication open and work on keeping your "relationship tank" full by doing things together.

-Dr. Laura Berman Intimacy Expert and Author

Listen before you speak. Don't be quick to react or make decisions about your partner, take the time to listen to what they have to say - this will help you understand where they are coming from and allow them to communicate their thoughts and feelings in return.

-Marriage and Family Therapist, Sarah Schewitz

Don't bring up problems when you are angry or upset. When you are upset, take the time to calm down before you discuss things with your partner. Go for a walk on your own or do some journaling to get out any negative feelings so that it doesn't come out when you discuss things with your partner.

-Author, Life Coach, and Therapist Dr. Kelly Flanagan

Take an interest in their passions. If you take the time to learn about what it is that makes your spouse happy and excited, this will help them feel like they have a kindred spirit and make them open up more readily to you.

-Dr. Laura Berman Intimacy Expert and Author

Be an active listener when your partner is speaking. When you are listening, look them in the eye and give feedback rather than just saying "uh-huh" now and then. It shows that you are engaged in what they have to say and will make them feel more supported.

-Life Coach and Therapist, Sarah Anne Shockley

Never go to bed angry. If you end the night with an argument, this will make it challenging for both of you to sleep - which leads to more tension the next day. Make time for each other at night and resolve any issues that need to be talked about before bedtime so that your relationship is happy and healthy!

-Life Coach, Sarah Anne Shockley

Be affectionate. Married couples often fall into a routine of life where they don't touch or hold each other as often. If you make an effort to be affectionate with your spouse (holding hands, hugging, kissing) it will strengthen the physical connection between you and make your relationship more romantic.

-Author, Life Coach, and Therapist Dr. Kelly Flanagan

Always remember that your time together is precious. Never take each other for granted.

-Dr. Laura Berman Intimacy Expert and Author

Every single marriage is different. Even if you follow all of the advice in this article, there may be times when it just doesn't work out. If you are feeling stuck or need help with your relationship, do not hesitate to seek professional guidance!

“If you do something that hurts your partner’s feelings, think it through, and apologize and make amends as soon as possible. Don’t rush, but don’t delay, either.”

-Cantor Daniel Pincus